Do not skip shampoo
How does this create soft hair : No build up on the hair
surface means you get a very smooth strand to the touch.
Hair conditioner is the first thing many think about when it
comes to soft hair but applying hair conditioner to hair with a layer of oil
and styling products really reduces its ability to work as intended. Find a
mild shampoo that you like and always use it during your main wash. If you
choose to co-wash between main washes, this is fine, but using a shampoo during
your main wash will help fight build up and create a nice clean layer for your
conditioner to work on.
Do not be heavy
handed with conditioner – Unravel those twists or braids
How does this create soft hair : Hair conditioner coats hair
with softening ingredients and the more hair you have in contact with the
conditioner, the softer it will feel.
If you are washing your hair in large twists or braids, take
the time to unravel each twist or braid and apply hair conditioner properly to
coat each strand of hair. You do not have to be heavy handed with your
conditioner, you just have to make sure you get every strand covered . Plopping
a large amount of conditioner on hair and trying to squeeze it through each
large twist or braid is not the way to go. However, do rebraid or retwist after
the conditioner application, if you intend to control shrinkage.
Heat up your
conditioner and keep it on for 20 – 30 minutes
How does this create soft hair : Increased heat and
additional time (20-30 minutes maximum), increases the amount of conditioner
that can deposit on the surface of hair. More conditioner on the surface equals
more softness.
Often in a salon, you will either have your hair wrapped in
a towel after conditioning and asked to wait or covered with a plastic cap and
placed under a hooded dryer. At home, you can achieve the same effect by simply
heating up your conditioner in a water bath and then keeping the heat in once
the conditioner is applied by covering your hair with a towel. Heat increases
the amount of deposits on the hair surface from conditioner (adsorption if you
are in the know). Increasing your conditioning time to 20-30 minutes also
increases adsorption but after this time period, there are no further
increases.
Go easy with the
leave in products and stretch your hair out to dry
How does this create soft hair: Using a minimal amount of
leave in products allows hair strands to be able to move past each other and
not be sticky. The lighter hair feels, the softer it feels. Also hair that is
very kinky with small curls will feel softer when stretched compared to when
allowed to fully shrink.
Leave in products are useful for maintaining moisture but
using a large amount can reduce the softness of hair. Naturally if you prefer
your hair to be coated with a product as it feels better, then that is ok for
you.
If you have hair that clumps, please ignore this next tip,
you should encourage clumping and allow your hair to dry unrestricted. If your
hair has tight curls and multiple kinks, allowing it to shrink fully can create
a very rough feeling texture (‘brillo pad’), regardless of whether you have
followed the processes listed above. This is the reason why many stylists will
finish hair with a light blow dry or twist out/braid out depending on time and
client’s desire. Stretching out the hair increases the feeling of softness.
Finally, one additional tip that I can give for stretching
hair at home is that if you are choosing to air dry your hair in twists or
braids, you can get a very good stretch and hair that feels very soft by
stretching in two cycles. First, apply your leave ins/oils to freshly washed
hair and braid or twist to dry. In the second cycle, unravel the dry twists or
braids, rewet lightly with water and reapply a small amount of leave in or oil
once more. Retwist or rebraid and allow to dry once more to get to a really
good stretch.